Gracious Guesting

I always want to be known as a gracious guest. When someone is kind enough to have you over for dinner (or some other occasion), unless it’s close friends who you dine with often, it’s best to arrive with some type of gift for the host. Since I am a last minute person, I often end up grabbing a bottle of wine from our apartment and running out the door. It really is the thought that counts so it doesn’t matter what you take, but there are so many more thoughtful and unique gifts, that can be given instead of wine. And even small things like tying a ribbon around your gift or putting it in a cute bag, add tremendously to the gesture.

When should you bring a gift?? To a casual dinner party (gifts aren’t typically taken to a formal dinner party), a housewarming, a weekend visit, or if someone is hosting a party in your honor.

When deciding what to bring, it is always good to keep your host’s taste in mind. But, if you aren’t close enough with the person enough to know, there are plenty of general crowd pleasing gifts. And you can’t go wrong with a homemade gift because that wins you all the thoughtful points!

Here are a few ideas I have come up with and hopefully this will get me out of my “only taking a bottle of wine” rut…

Coffee from your favorite local cafe

A cute tin of Olive Oil- a friend of mine recently brought this to us when she was staying for the weekend!

Your favorite chocolate

Mason Jar Shakers

A cocktail book

A pretty soap

A specialty honey

Tea (even better if you tie a little strainer on top with a ribbon)

Your favorite ice cream with an ice cream scooper

Hand soap and a candle

A unique bottle opener

A pretty salt

Cocktail Stirrers

And like I said earlier, you can’t go wrong with something homemade. Homemade granola with the recipe is a great idea. If you bring a homemade food item like granola or cookes, always include a recipe card.

If you grow any type of fresh fruit, that’s always makes a great gift

Here are a few good things to have on hand when making homemade gifts (click each item to see where to purchase)…

Diane at Cannes

Diane Kruger killed it at Cannes. Dresses, hair, makeup…PERFECTION!!! She is always a vision on the red carpet, and I love that she manages to look elegant and feminine, while keeping things interesting and modern. Here are a few of her looks…

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Summer Essential

In the warmer months, whether you are on vacation or just spending more time outdoors, a carryall is essential so you can be prepared to stay out all day. We spend a lot of our weekend time laying around the park, and I always enjoy myself more if I have all the things I need- which means a bigger bag. My tote is always filled with sunscreen, towels, phone, wallet, sunglasses, water bottles, magazines, a hat, snacks…Lord knows what else could be in there. Here are a few cute ones – the first one from Zara has a great price!

Zara

J.Crew

Shopbop

Forever 21

Club Monaco

Madewell

Zara

Shopbop

Madewell

Madewell

Create The Perfect Cheese Plate

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Cheese is the food I get the most excited about it…by far. I LOVE CHEESE. Whether it be queso dip at  a Mexican restaurant, grilled cheese sandwiches, a cheese board, cheese grated over a salad or in a pasta…it makes everything better!

When we have people over, Miller usually does the cooking, and I am in charge of the appetizers. My favorite thing is to serve a cheese plate, which I take much pride in. You can probably tell, because I often tweet pictures of my hors d’oeuvres setups! I have so much fun going cheese shopping and then styling it to look all pretty. Part of the reason I enjoy it so much is because there are so many little cheese shops around New York, like Murray’s Cheese, where the employees are passionate about sharing their knowledge and love of cheese. If you live in a smaller city with no shops like this, go to the most gourmet grocery store you can find, and there should be someone willing to help you.

My very favorite thing about a cheese plate, is the pairings. I LOVE interesting and contrasting pairings- like a strong cheese with a mild fruit, jam, or honey. If I see fresh figs or fig jam on a cheese board, I am in HEAVEN. There is definitely etiquette and “rules” when it comes to preparing the perfect cheese plate, but I don’t think there is any reason to complicate things or follow rules. You should just do what you like and people will enjoy it no matter what.

If creating a cheese board intimidates you a little bit, here are a few general guidelines that you can follow…(or choose not to follow)

-Serve between 3 to 5 cheeses, and the typical serving size is 1-2 oz per cheese/per person (tell this to the person at the store so they will know how much to cut)

-Go for different types of cheeses. For example…different milk types, textures, degrees of creaminess, and colors.

-Don’t remove the rinds, and if the rinds are soft, they are perfectly edible.

-Cheese taste better at room temperature so always take it out of the fridge an hour before serving.

-Serve with at least one bready thing, whether it be a baguette or your favorite cracker.

-Serve the cheeses on a big board, and order the cheeses from mildest to strongest.

-A lot of experts say to end on a blue cheese, which tastes amazing paired with a honey or a chocolate sauce!

-Opposites attract. Mix a salty with sweet or a really strong, stinky cheese with a mild fruit such as a pear.

-Things can definitely get very specific when it comes to what wine to pair with cheese, but you can’t go wrong serving champagne or prosecco.

-Always ask the person at the cheese counter for his or her current favorite cheeses and pairings.

-Different pairing options…Honey, dried fruits like figs or apricots, toasted hazelnuts or walnuts, almonds (marcona almonds are a favorite), fruit jams, chutneys, fresh fruit (my favorites are figs, grapes, cherries, and pears), chocolate, olives, cured meat like proscuitto or salami, bread and crackers.

And have fun with it! You could pick a theme such as serving cheese from specific countries or you could label each one on a slate cheese board so that can people can learn about the cheeses they are eating.

Here are a few no fail summer pairings:

A good goat cheese with cherries and almonds.

Aged Gruyere with fig jam.

A good blue cheese, like a Blue Fourme d’ambert, with clover honey or fresh pears.

Sweet hard cheeses with fresh figs.

A manchego with apricot jam or quince jelly. I had never had quince jam until the cheese lady at Dean and Deluca introduced it to me last year. She had me pair a manchego, with quince paste, and Carr’s rosemary crackers…delicious!!!

Parmegiano Reggiano with raw honey.

Hope you enjoyed my cheese how-to’s. I tried my best to keep it as simple as possible!

And last but not least…if you are ever in NYC, you must check out my favorite wine and cheese restaurant, Casellula. If cheese has never excited you before, it will after you try this place. The pairings are so surprising and every bite is a serious explosion of flavor!!! My mouth is watering just thinking about this place.

Weekend Roundup

My 28th birthday was this week, and I could not have felt more loved and celebrated. My best friends and Miller truly went all out for me. I can’t get over how special they made me feel! Can’t wait to do the same for them on their birthday. So today, I just can’t stop thinking about how thankful I am for all of the friends in my life- old and new.

Miller took me to a birthday lunch at the restaurant in Bergdorf Goodman – same thing we did last year on my birthday. It’s my favorite place for a girlie lunch- the interior is so cute and you get great views of Central Park.

Yum

The next day my girlfriends took me out to brunch at Tartine- my best friend Anna even flew in to surprise me! Which of course I found out about 2 days before because I always find out everything:)

And THEN, they gave me the party of my DREAMS!! A cat themed party…Tophats and Kittycats.

Before the party, a few girls came over and Miller had this all set up for us…SO sweet.

My AMAZING cousin Lauren and her friend Danny, who are both studying makeup and styling at a school in New York right now, came over and made us feel all pretty

Thank you Sam for the best balloon ever

I have so many pictures I want to post, but there is someone doing something crazy, weird, or embarrassing in almost every one so these few are the most “normal” ones that I can find…

Clearly, I was enjoying myself to the fullest! Thanks again, ya’ll!!!

Watch

“The Conversation” on Lifetime.

“The Conversation” is a new show on Lifetime where the host, Amanda de Cadenet, sits down with very interesting and inspiring women and has more than just a typical interview with them…it really feels like you are catching bits and pieces of a very intimate conversation. These women very openly discuss their past and their journey. They share stories of struggle, overcoming those struggles, growth, family, failure, success, how they have been able to find their peace…I truly feel like this show is something all women can relate to. I want to start watching it with my girlfriends so we can discuss every topic they cover – kind of like a TV book club. Whether you agree or disagree with the opinion’s shared, it’s refreshing to see such transparency on television. And the topics are so relevant and relatable to what we as women deal with. IT IS WORTH WATCHING! You can see the past episodes here. Let me know what you think!

Summer Essential

A bright lip color and skin with a glow…that’s how simple summer makeup can be. And hair too. Hello Surf Spray.

In the summer, I think it looks freshest to have a lip color that is non drying and non chalky- something more creamy or glossy. There are all lip gels out right now that feel SO good when you put them on.

Revlon Lip Butter

Laura Mercier Gel Lip Color

MAC Cremesheen

YSL Glossy Stain

Known as the holy grail of bronzers- Geurlain Terracotta

Another favorite of makeup artists – this one definitely has a bit of shimmer so you can’t go overboard – Nars Laguna

Best everyday body lotion – absorbs quickly but leaves you with the slightest pretty sheen – Nivea Essentially Enriched

Michael Kors Leg Shine- this is one of those things you can pick up  at Sephora in the baskets beside the check out counters. I love this stuff!!! I carry it in my purse everyday during the summer. It does not give your skin any color but gives you the slightest glow. I put it on my legs, arms, and collar bone. The best part is the smell. It has the freshest, most WONDERFUL summery scent. The travel size that I have can be found for $10.00 at Sephora or you can get the full size here.

All Women’s Talk

If you are a woman and haven’t checked out the All Women’s Talk blog, you must check it out now! It’s a really fun, simple blog that covers pretty much every topic you can think of! The categories include health, cooking, travel, skincare, makeup, parenting, hair, and lifestyle to name a few. Here are a few examples of the thousands of posts…Sorry if I introduced you to yet another distracting website!

Weekend Roundup

Hello from Alabama! It has been FAR too long since I’ve given an update. Miller and I have been on the road the last 12 days for photo shoots and visiting with family so I haven’t had the time to post anything. However, I could not go without posting today because I am so proud of my brother Brad, who was selected Saturday in the NFL draft to play for the Cleveland Browns. It is so incredible to see his hard work pay off. What an honor to be valued enough to be drafted…I just can’t get over it! Here is a photo of my family from this weekend. Now that me and my brothers all live in different cities, it will be more rare for the whole family to be together so I have really appreciated all the quality time we’ve had this weekend.

Earlier in the week, we were in Fairhope and New Orleans shooting interiors for our dear friends at Brinson Interiors. A couple of the shots…

Our three year anniversary was Wednesday!!! Truly the best three years of my life. I am so thankful. Since we were in New Orleans working that day, we are waiting to properly celebrate when we get back to NYC!

Here are a couple of photos from a shoot we did for the Hollywood Reporter of Joe Scarborough and Mika Brzezinksi, hosts of “Morning Joe” on MSNBC. The shoot took place on a roof deck at 30 Rock, and Joe and Mika could not have been more fun subjects.

Miller flew back to New York on Friday to shoot for TIME magazine, a dream client of ours. It’s pretty amazing to see Miller’s hard work paying off and to see people in New York recognizing his talent. I feel like lots of exciting things are going to be happening soon. Can’t wait to share more of our journey with you!! Thank you so much for all of your support and encouragement.

Summer Essential

Now that the warmer weather is upon us, (well, not quite yet in New York) I’m on the hunt for the perfect leather everyday sandal. I think a simple, classic leather sandal is so beautiful and looks great with a swimsuit, shorts, flowy dresses, anything white, caftans, skinny jeans…pretty much everything. K.Jacques is a French brand that is known for their well made, quality sandals if you are interested. They are not cheap, but will last.

I have a list of things that I find essential for the spring and summer months that I’m going to blog about over the next month. What are some of the thing you find yourself wanting/needing during the hot, sunny weather and on beach trips?!

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