I am a big believer in the importance of creating a relaxing environment for yourself at home, especially at the end of your day. I know that it’s wayyyy easier said than done. When things get busy and hectic, the last thing on your mind is probably yourself. I don’t have kids yet, but can’t even imagine how hard it is to create time for yourself once there are little ones in the picture. But, there are a few simple little things I do that send me into that relaxed zone. Whether it be a bath oil or lotion, putting fresh flowers in your bedroom, doing an at home facial, putting on a face mask and reading magazines in bed, a cup of nighttime tea, or even something as simple as lighting a candle…being intentional about creating a soothing environment can make the world of difference. (And I like to squeeze this face - I omit the olive oil from that recipe- and body scrub into the mix every so often if I have extra time)
For me, it’s all about smell. When I smell any sort of lavender or chamomile, I feel like I’m at a spa and go into a happy place. And I ALWAYS end up sleeping better when I’m in that relaxed space. Here are a few things that always get me there, no matter how crazy of a day I’ve had.
This chamomile lavender bedroom candle is AMAZING. A littttle pricey, but worth it.
Patchouli Lavender Vanilla Shower Oil
The cheapest and easiest ones of all- the Aveeno chamomile lavender body wash and body lotion are so GOOD.
I’m not a sleep mask person but I have heard this one is incredible. The mask is 100% silk with a velvet lining and there is loose dried lavender inside the lining so you get that soothing smell.
Sleepy time tea
I am not even going to try and act like I’m the perfect little homemaker who keeps fresh flowers in our apt all the time- I do happen to have some hydrangeas in the bedroom right now (thanks to a sweet best friend) – and they are making the world of difference. It really makes our apartment feel like a more peaceful place.
And I’m super interested…what scents do you find the most soothing??









OMG I’m obsessed with that Aveeno stuff!!!
Rose. Dr. Hauschka Rose Oil is incredibly soothing.
I agree with your suggestions about lavender/chamomile. There are homemade soaps available at Whole Foods. I have so much fun smelling all the soaps and come out of the grocery feeling very happy and relaxed!
love the aveeno too! and love this post on you time…so so support that